The truth is, what it means to be transgender in 21st century India is vastly different, depending on context.
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“We thought it is important to have such initiatives for mainstream sexually marginalised communities and support them to live a life of dignity. There is overwhelming response from the community. We can already feel the vibrancy,” says Sajitha Madathil, actress and programme consultant at IFFK.
She says the committee even has plans to include transgender board members in the next edition.
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Neysara Rai is the founder of Transgender India, a non-funded peoples’ movement comprising transpeople who have taken issue with how they are presented in the media. The 33-year-old from Mangalore, transgender herself, explains why this is important. “When a transgender person comes out to his or her family, a lot of times their families judge them based on media representations of transpeople.” Neysara says she receives between 15 and 20 calls a day from people holding successful jobs or studying at prestigious institutions who are, nonetheless, struggling with their gender identities. Her website also incorporates a dedicated forum for transgenders where support is lent and advice sought. In the ‘Talk’ section Nikita, whose parents are unwilling to come to terms with her gender dysphoria, begins a thread ‘Talked to Mom, went horribly.’ Among the many comforting responses she receives, one from a user named Dianthe stands out.‘We've had years to come to terms with this, and some of us still don't fully accept ourselves. Our parents haven't had time at all. I know it hurts but they probably won't get what you're going through at the moment. I suppose the best we can do right now is try to be as independent, personally and financially, as possible. Build on our skills. We're trying to build our own lives after all. When we can't work on one part we can work on another. And of course the people on this forum are always here to help you out, sistah!’
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Transgender Portrayals in Indian Cinema
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Gopi Shankar Madurai, founder of Srishti Madurai and finalist for the 2016 Commonwealth Youth Worker Award, agrees.
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“The media is homogenising the entire trans community and stereotyping pre-existing notions, instead of breaking them. Moreover, the media likes weirdness and they make trans people look as weird as possible just to raise eyebrows and get more views.”Criticisms such as theirs recognise that transgender stories are being told in India today, but raise the question: are they being told right? According to recent responses, the good news is several of them are. The Malabar Cultural Forum based in Kozhikode has been conducting a state-level cultural festival for transgenders, Orukkam, for the last few years. Unnikrishnan, an ICTC counsellor with the Government Hospital of Mahe, who has been part of the event describes it as inciting huge responses from transgenders and the general public alike. Nileena Atholi, a young journalist at Mathrubhumi daily recently won the SBT Media Literary Award and the Ramnath Goenka Award for her series on the lives of transgenders titled Ardhajeevithangalude Arakshithavasthakal. Her aim was to give sexual minorities visibility and spread awareness about their issues. She believes that artistic expression has direct impact on the lives of struggling communities and feels it is important for them to “get many opportunities to prove their calibre and thereby enter the mainstream”. But her usage of the m-word rings alarm bells that toll for enforced normalisation. The problem with art for an issue is a universal one, wherein the boundary line between sensitivity and appropriation needs to be clearly demarcated. This is possible when, rather than focusing on making transgender mainstream, the point behind gender queer cinema is decidedly to communicate authenticity and challenge stereotypes. Take for instance the popular Indian trans band 6 Pack Band who shimmied into the spotlight on a Yash Raj Films-tinted music video last year. Their first song (released as a Red Label ad), Sab Rab de Bande (We’re All Children of God), was applauded for its heartwarming display of transgender life and Sonu Nigam’s honeyed vocals. Their second, Ae Raju, featured Hrithik Roshan and the lyrics “Das rupiya signal pe jo maanga toh Shahrukh mera senti ho gaya.” (All I did was beg for Rs. 10 at the signal and Shahrukh got sentimental.) Neysara, who loved the first and hated the second, protests, “A progressive video doesn’t say “‘I’m begging, what’s your problem?’ I worry that while abroad trans videos are about telling trans stories, in India it is often about about selling a brand more than empowering.”
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Transparency in Trans Policy
Anil Arjunan, director of the NGO Chilla in Trivandrum thinks that the transgender policy introduced by the government is well-planned and ensures equal rights for everyone. The two important aspects of the policy he outlines are third gender ID cards and including a third ‘other’ column on application forms. The issue, according to him, is not with policy but with implementation. (He might have a point on that last score; Thottathil Raveendran, Mayor of Kozhikode Corporation, said he was not aware such a policy existed so the Corporation has not yet initiated any measures.) Yet, transgender people themselves have little representation in legislation and feel that the government pays less attention to issues they are actually facing than ones they assume they are facing.“What is transgender policy?” asks Neysara. “Trans law doesn’t speak about rape law, marriage law, adoption law, inheritance law. All it speaks about are reservations and cards and quotas. That’s not a big issue! I can get a passport, or a PAN card that says I am a woman or a transgender but I could have got those documents anyway. I need laws that will make my life better not another ID card!”